At the same time

At the same time,
“Reconciliation means to work it out within yourself so that peace can be restored. Reconcile with yourself for the sake of the world, for the sake of all living beings. Your peace and serenity are crucial for all of us.
– Thich Nhat Hanh, in “How to Love”.”
These days I find myself easily agitated by others’ behaviors or attitude. That must be because I dislike those elements in myself, too.
What a fool.
I must turn inside and focus on reconciling with myself. “For the sake of all living beings.” What if the person talking about peace cannot be in peace with herself?